Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Outsider's Perspective

Last weekend, our little family joined a group of 27 other relatives and went to Moab. Moab is considered a great place for hiking, mountain biking, four-wheeling, and general off-roading.

I didn't do any of that.

Without participating in the traditional Moab activities, I write now as a complete outsider from the grand adventures. Let's see how Moab looks from that side, shall we?

We started out bright and early. Or at least early. It wasn't really bright yet...



We stopped at McDonald's for some breakfast, filled up on gas, and headed to our designated meeting location to caravan down south.

After a bathroom break at a rest stop and a snack break at Walmart in Price, where we added two more cars to our already four-car parade we arrived at...the lunch break.


The girls danced with their much older cousins (well, Dad's cousins) and started the first of many rock piles to come. Good thing Dad and Grandpa Pyper were so accommodating.


We were only seven miles out of Moab at this point, but it was too early in the day to check in to the RV resort/campsite where we'd be staying, so we pulled aside for the first bike ride of the weekend. Admittedly, Chris and I were a little clueless as to what the plans were...we've never gone before and we were with a group that goes twice a year for the last [insert some large number here] years. There was a certain level of assumption, since they have a regular routine followed on each trip. We didn't know that plan and therefore didn't necessarily know what to expect at any given point. But we managed ok anyway.

Chris all ready for his first even official mountain bike ride! Thank you, Brian, for letting us borrow your bike.


Jane wanted to go, too.


Sadly, she couldn't quite keep up. We all stayed behind and settled in for the wait.


The scenery was nice, despite spending three and a half hours in nothing more than a dirt parking lot.



Chris had the better view, I think.


He had more company, too.



The girls and I did get to hang out with Melissa, Lorilynn, Edie, Kambri, and Grandma and Grandpa Pyper. That is, right up until the wind became so strong that the dust blowing around forced us back into the van.


More to the point, we went to the front two seats of the van. As we had not been to camp yet, the van was still full of all our gear, meaning there was no room past the front seats. Sigh. That was a long couple of hours...

Once all the bikers returned, we loaded up again and headed into Moab proper for dinner. And a couple hours after that we were checked in and getting settled in our cabin.


Nice place--no inside pictures, though. Sorry. That first night was a little hectic. I was really worn out from all the car time and watching the girls with nothing to do time, and we didn't get into camp until it was already starting to get dark. We basically had time to dump all the stuff into the cabin, put the girls to bed, then we went to bed. Not the most exciting introduction to camp ever. Then we woke up really early so Chris could get ready to go on a hike to Delicate Arch. The girls and I didn't go because we didn't know how it would be for me (pregnant) and them (short and often uncooperative walkers), so Chris went out with the group alone. In hindsight, we should have gone. We had a hiking backpack that Megan could have ridden in and Jane would have been fine walking it. Oh, well. We'll know next time.

It was a good time, though, for me to get the cabin more organized--that helped my mental sanity for the next two days. Jane and I also had plenty of time to discover the greater amenities the RV resort had to offer while Megan took a nap. All kinds of fun things like...

a playground,



tether ball,


giant chess and checkers (middle schoolers not included),



and...whatever this game is called.


It was probably the best since it provided such a variety of entertainment, like counting,


step stools,


scooping,


shaking,


and hats.


Despite all that fun, I admit, I was pretty disappointed when Chris came back and I saw what we missed in his pictures.







Ah, that would have been cool. I'm glad that Chris got to go, but pretty sad that the rest of us missed out. Next time.


At least we could go back in the cabin when the wind got too strong and too cold, as it apparently did for them also. They were just stuck on top of a mountain.


That afternoon, Chris took off with the men-folk to ride Porcupine Rim. It wasn't until they got back that I learned this particular trail has caused, I believe, the most biker deaths in the area because the trail goes straight along the edge of a very high cliff. Um, thanks for not telling me...I think... Either way, I don't have any pictures of that ride. I'll have to get copies from Bruce sometime.

While the guys were gone, all the women and children went--where else?--shopping downtown. I told the girls they could each pick one thing for me to buy for them. Lucky me, Jane picked a bracelet that only cost $1.49 and Megan doesn't care, so she got the same thing. Me? I bought something completely un-Moab-related that I still happen to really really like.


Souvenirs are all about personal taste, right? Well, this one fits me well.

From my side, Saturday was the closest I got to really feeling like a tourist having the Moab experience. The last ride for the bikers was Dead Horse Point in Dead Horse Point State Park. I don't know about you, but I was not aware that our fair state had a park named after dead horses. Learn something new every day.

The riders heading out--we were down to only three families by this point, instead of the previous eight.


Our waiting location was better this time. The parking lot was paved, so Jane could actually ride her tricycle successfully.


There was also a visitor's center that we spent a fair amount of time in, taking advantage of the kid corner they had set up.



The scenery was good, too.



We even saw Christopher! He's the one in red.


I had fun taking pictures of the girls. Even if they weren't always cooperative.






The group all split after that ride. The two other cars headed out to make the trek home. We drove a little farther into the park to see the actual Dead Horse Point. The legend is that cowboys would round up the wild mustang horses in the area, then corral them in on that peninsula. They'd take the horses they wanted, then leave the rest trapped there, where they'd die of thirst within view of the river 2,000 feet below. Sad.


I was glad we went, because it was well worth the view. We didn't stay long, though, because it was really REALLY windy and cold. Jane also tripped and scraped up her knee and never really recovered until she fell asleep in the car. At least we got one family shot on our trip, even if it isn't the most flattering picture we've ever had taken.


All told, it was a good trip. It was hard with such little kids, and things were awkward at times because we really did have no idea what was going on, but I'm glad we went. We'd like to go again.

One final note: You may have noticed Jane's hair in the previous pictures. I am one who is highly opposed to dealing with her hair during trips away from home, particularly when we'll be spending a lot of time outside in the wind. This was my chosen hairstyle for Jane this trip.


27 elastics total. It was way worth it. I did it on Wednesday night. This picture was taken on Saturday night, after sleeping on it three nights and playing outside in strong winds for three days. It isn't hardly coming out at all. Yep, definitely worth not having to brush her hair multiple times every day.

It only took about ten minutes to get out. Our trick is a seam ripper. Just pop it under one loop of the elastic and cut it, then unwrap. I buy 100 of those little elastics for a dollar, so I don't feel bad about using them only once. Again, the convenience is worth the cost.


So, good trip. Let's hope we can work it out to go again, even if we have three small children next time...

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

An Exercise in Portraiture

Several people have commented to me on my lack of Moab-blogging. I promise, it's coming. The writing is not coming to me as nicely as usual, and that coupled with a malfunctioning memory card reader, the post just hasn't happened yet. But stay tuned. I promise, it's coming.

Before we went to Moab, I had my hair cut for the first time in over a year. Chris has been wanting me to grow out my hair ever since we got married and this was the first time I've been consistently willing long enough for it to actually grow.

But, I have stick-straight hair. It's very healthy, and the color is great, but it's boring. No wave, no curl whatsoever. I finally mustered up the desire and, thanks to Christopher, the fundage to get a real hair cut. This is the best picture I have of my new style, taken by yours truly on my cell phone so I could send it to Chris while he was at work.


Layers in the front, trimmed nice and even in the back. Still super easy and yet not quite so boring.

Here is another self-portrait. Chris has generally been my belly photographer for pregnancy shots. I always get overly self-conscious about how my face/hair looks in those pictures and thus never like any of them, much to the annoyance of all involved. So, I attempted one myself while no one else, including the camera, could see my face.


I took the girls out to run errands yesterday and I had no less than four or five people comment on my belly...apparently I actually look pregnant now. It's nice to have those reminders because really, sometimes I still just feel enormously fat. Probably because I worked so hard to get skinny right before I got pregnant. :(

Anyway. I'm 24 weeks now, almost 25. I'm just waiting for the third trimester to kick in so I can finally feel like we've gotten somewhere. It still just seems like I've been pregnant forever and still have forever to go!

One of the errands we ran yesterday was Megan's 18-month checkup. She weighs 25 lbs. 10 oz. (only three pounds less than Jane) and is 31 inches tall. That puts her dead average on height and still a little higher on weight, but not anything to be worried about.

Funny thing. The doctor did stay it's a bit unusual for her to not really be talking yet (she only has maybe six words that have meaning, and those aren't all fully intelligible). She seems to understand most of what we say to her, though, so no cause for concern yet. He said that most likely, she has an older sibling who does a lot of the talking for her.

See? It's not just me that thinks Jane talks a lot!

The most exciting thing about Megan being 18 months old is that she finally finally finally gets to go into nursery! HOORAY!! We got her all dressed up Sunday morning and I wanted to take a picture of this week's milestone, but she was quite opposed.


Until Jane stepped in to help.


Then she got the idea.


Megan has often been with me in the past when I've dropped Jane off at nursery and generally gets rather upset when she has to leave with me afterward. Chris and I both dropped her and Jane off on Sunday. I closed the door and looked back through the window to see what Megan would do. She looked at me for just a second and you could watch the realization in her face that she got to stay. Her face broke out in a huge grin and she took off toward the toys. Priceless.

And yes, she still has her cast. It actually comes off tomorrow. I'm pretty excited. She will finally get to have a real bath again. And we can avoid moments like this:


Yeah, her arm is stuck. She couldn't get it out because of the cast. Don't worry, though. I didn't stop to take a picture until about the eighth time she'd done it. I figured if she hadn't learned by then, she could wait long enough for me to get the camera.

I'll blog Moab tomorrow, or maybe even later tonight. For now, I'm off to clean my bathroom mirror.

Monday, April 4, 2011

the Beauty that is

General Conference

We don't have cable, but Chris was able to hook up the antenna that happens to live on our roof. Lucky us, we got General Conference in Hi-Def for free. Sweet.

It was really, really nice to be able to stay home and watch conference. It was much easier to keep track of the girls and still listen when we didn't have to worry as much about what trouble they may be causing.

We did work to help Jane, at least, have some kind of good connection to what was going on. For one, we had her find the pictures of the speakers. She got pretty good at it by the end.


The girls did have a few moments where they just might have been listening.


Or it might just have been that Dad got them to sit still long enough to share an orange.


Most of the time, though, we contented ourselves with having them in the same room.


Even if they obviously weren't listening...


I decided I wanted to have a nice, big family breakfast on Conference's Sunday morning. Bad Mommy Moment: We slept in a little late that morning, and then were cooking all the food, so it was much later than usual before the girls ate. Megan wasn't happy about that.


Yeah. That was when I realized that, well, they'd never had dinner the night before. Sorry, girls! With the bustle of Chris leaving for a song practice and then Priesthood session and me babysitting three older girls from the ward so their dad could go to the session, too, dinner somehow slipped my mind. Sigh. Please forgive me.

We made up for it with breakfast!


Especially, apparently, because we had bacon. Jane even had to pick every little piece that had broken off on the plate.


We watched three of the four session in the basement on the computer...so much for hi-def.


But we did get some significant progress made on our new puzzle.


I don't know if I've posted about this one yet or not. I don't think I have. We have done an ancient map of the world jigsaw puzzle each time I've been pregnant. With Jane, it was a 2,000 piece puzzle. With Megan, it was 3,000 pieces. This time?

6,000 pieces

Pretty much it's going to be ginormous. It is literally as wide as I am tall. And holy cow it's hard to put together. We spent just under six hours working on it this afternoon and what do we have to show? Not quite four feet of the edge. That's it. That does certainly count for something--Chris even did that much all himself while I only sorted other pieces--but we still have a very, very long way to go before it's done.

Deep breath. This one's going to take some real effort. We could use some help. Any volunteers?

As usual, though, the girls weren't always quietly listening to the talks being given.


But Conference was still wonderful. Ah, I'm glad I'm an adult now who can really appreciate and enjoy all that General Conference is.

The cuddling was okay with me, too.


Even if my belly does look kind of huge and yet not quite as "pregnant" as I'd like from this particular angle...sigh. I look kind of fat. But Megan is still really cute.


This has been a very good beginning to what is shaping up to be an insanely busy, but hopefully good, month. In the coming days and weeks, we have quite a few adventures planned:

All four of us are going to Moab for mountain biking (Christopher) and playing in the dirt (Jane and Megan) and generally not being required to do anything (Laura--yay!!).

Chris and I are going to Yellowstone while the girls stay home with aunt Amy for two days.

I am leaving them all at home--husband and children--to go to BYU Women's Conference with my mom and sisters. Hello girl time.

And don't forget book club, Easter, several doctor appointments including one for the removal of a certain orange cast, and at least one hair cut. Busy month. Let's hope it's all good.

P.S. There is another new post below, just in case you missed it.

She made it!

I already mentioned that we have been wanting to get Jane into preschool. She's ready for it, I'm ready for it. I had heard amazing things about the preschool program at the local elementary school and decided it was definitely worth the shot.

I was nervous, though. Apparently everyone else in the neighborhood had also heard all the amazing things about the preschool and it was fairly difficult to get in before all the spots were filled. We showed up early for the registration time, and yet managed to still be at the end of the line for most of the time we were there.

Ugh.

But it worked out. By the time our turn came up and they copied our paperwork, the moment of truth had arrived. Dun dun dun. We got the very last spot for the class we wanted. Yay!! Starting in August, Jane will attend preschool twice a week. Yay!

The one problem we have now is that Jane knows she will be going to school but really has no concept of when that actually happens. We've been trying to give her some major events to help hold off the excitement until the appropriate time. If you ask Jane, she now knows that first Bill and Morgan will get married, then the baby will be born, then Jesus will come. Then we can go to school.

There you have it. The second coming will be sometime in August.

I really don't know where that came from, but she is quite adamant. Oh, well. I guess we'll just play it by ear. :)

Later that evening, we got out of the house for a bit just for the sake of getting out. I think the girls really enjoyed having Dad play with them for a while.



Even if he didn't always follow all the playground rules.


But that's ok. The slides were as fun as ever.



Too bad it's snowed again and we won't be back for a while...